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Re-Imagine Your Life -

Tap Your Way to Inner Freedom

Intuitive Mentoring for Spiritual Self Worth

Six months of heart-centered life-path coaching
for spiritually sensitive people
using EFT and other meridian tapping techniques,
to:

*find your voice
*stand up for yourself
* feel safe and at home in your body
*change your story from sad to glad
*discover and trust your own inner guidance
*“put yourself out there” with confidence and anticipation

“From taking this program my focus has started to change from self-improvement to self-acceptance.”  E.P.

Re-Imagine Your Life is a six month program designed to help you to re-imagine the story that you have been telling about yourself.

*You will learn how to know what you love.
So many of us learned how to love what someone else told us we should love.

*You will learn how to choose what is right for you based on your own deep intuition.
We learned how to make other people happy and we thought it was selfish to turn our attention to ourselves.

*You will learn how to use the gifts of your sensitivity to guide your way toward abundance and happiness.
We were so sensitive—we thought something was wrong with us.

*You will learn how to model this way of being sensitive and successful in your life.
We thought we had to fit into the system and follow someone else’s rules.

*This program is not about me dispensing my knowledge to you.  It is about you learning to live your own story, not the story someone else wanted you to live.

Some questions you might be asking about your life…

Do you feel tight and constricted all the time?

Do you feel the weight of all the should’s on your shoulders?

Do you sometimes wish, “If only I could be who I really am…”

Do you ever get the sense that you are trying to pretend not to be who you really are?

Do you ever feel like the rest of the world is so off track, and you know what it needs, but you can’t get anyone’s attention or they think you are weird?

Do you want so much to help that you put yourself last on your to-do list?  (if you are on it at all…)

Are you desperately trying to make the world a better place … (so that it will be easier for you to be here?)

And…don’t you wish you had access to your own guidance and wisdom, instead of always trying to seek your direction and truth from other people, spiritual teachers, books or CD’s?

Is this you?  You might have heard:
Oh, you are just too sensitive!
You take things so hard!
Just let it roll off your back.
You are so spacey!
That will never work – you are so impractical.
Get your head out of the clouds!
Get your feet on the ground!
What’s wrong with you?

You have probably thought that they were right—wondering, if I am so sensitive, is there something wrong with me?

As a spiritually aware, sensitive person myself, I have learned, often the hard way, how to tap into my deep inner truth, natural wisdom and strength. I can help you to learn this too, in your own grounded, natural way.  My intention is to be a good guide, and we go hand in hand.

How would you know if you are a spiritually sensitive person?

When people first hear about the sensitive temperament, they may think it doesn’t apply to them.  But when I describe it, I see heads beginning to nod, and recognition lighting in their eyes.

Knowing about this usually starts with feeling different, strange, maybe even weird or alien.  You don’t find many people who seem like you.

Some quotes from sensitive people:

I believe my self worth has been tied into taking on/protecting the emotional ‘compositions’ of everyone around me which is very draining.

In order to protect myself I had to shut down, tense up. I became out of touch with my own feelings.

I find social situations stressful and criticism like a stab in the heart (because I try so hard).  That has been a good excuse for playing small, avoiding risks and challenges and thus preventing my own inner light from really shining and pursuing my dreams and aspirations.

Some characteristics of Sensitivity

•    Many sensitive adults have learned to hide their spiritual sensitivity from others.

•    They may feel like their sensitivity is a weakness, something lacking in them.

•    They wish things didn’t bother them so much.

•    They wish their emotions weren’t so obvious to other people.

•    They have deep feelings of being undeserving and unworthiness.

•    They may think they are not spiritual enough, not deserving enough.

•    They whole-heartedly wish they were tougher and more thick-skinned.

•    They think that they must be bad, inside – “If I was a better person I would be able to do life better.  It must be MY fault!”

•    They may be struggling with feeling unheard, unseen, undervalued, especially by their families.

•    They think they will never find work in the world where they can express who they really are

Would you like to be more visible in the world?

… but everything inside you screams “Stop! You won’t be safe! People won’t understand me!  They never have.”

Maybe you have even manifested an illness, or chronic emotional or physical pain, which is not a good thing, but at least it allows you to say NO when you need to.  And then you have time to do what you want to do.

Maybe you stay sheltered at home, kind of hiding out, or you are toughing it out in an unchallenging job, or your life seems filled with always trying to meet the expectations of other people.  Maybe it feels like that has been your only way to get love and approval and a sense of belonging.

So you keep on keeping on, soldiering on, wishing your life would change but having no clue how to make that happen.  (And maybe there is even a little voice in the back  your head that is saying, “Yeah, but if I change, then what?  Who would I be?  I won’t know how to be in the world without my pain/anger/fear/self-criticism! It is safer to stay where I am…”)

A lot of sensitive people are hiding in traditional jobs that feel soul-killing.  Having a strong sense of perfection, they do their work exceptionally well, trying to meet the expectations of those around them. But inside they are tense, tight, sad and angry.

They can’t express these feelings though, or maybe they are no longer even noticing that these are the feelings that they have.  They think that their anger or sadness is just more evidence that there is something wrong with them.  If I were a better person I wouldn’t be feeling this way. It is my fault!  I should just suck it up and get on with it – quit whining!

From many years of working with people with a sensitive temperament, I know that they have been swallowing and stuffing their difficult feelings for a long time.

Now they are feeling overwhelmed.  They are either extremely touchy with explosive anger, or they have turned the anger in on themselves as self criticism.  By now, these buried feelings may be showing up as chronic pain or a chronic immune system illness, or ongoing emotional pain in the form of depression.

Sensitive people may stay away from crowds, afraid or shy to develop a social life or engage with the world.  They feel vulnerable and invisible.

OR, they are outwardly very extroverted, life-of the party types.

But as one person told me:

I realized that other people seemed dangerous to me.  When I am with people I am actually over here to the side of my body.  I didn’t want anyone to see me, that was too dangerous.

So I created a lot of clamor, extroverted activity so no one would see me.  I seemed very extroverted. I also drank socially.  Drinking would take the cork out of my inhibitions.  I would be a very amusing  great storyteller.  Creating a whirlwind activity, noise, interesting things to look at or hear, so no one would ever notice the real me over there.  A diversionary camouflage.

It is not that it was unauthentic.  This is what I would do if I could really be alive. Life really comes down to knowing: do I like this or not?  When you are outside your body you don’t know.  There is this terrible starvation going on.   I was terrified of intimacy.  I lost the ability to be alone with my self, or to be myself, or with myself, or with anyone else.

Unbeknownst to to me I was deeply unhappy but I thought that was just the deal. (Sarah)

People often ask me, “How can I get rid of this sensitivity?”

I tell them “Your sensitivity is a GIFT.  You want to be strong and clear enough inside that you can stand up for who you are, stand in the presence of your inner power, honor the innate goodness in you.  Then you can be in the world effectively, not at the effect of it.  You don’t want to be stuck, you want to be present.”

A spiritually sensitive person has so much to give.

It is possible to transform yourself into someone who can actually offer your resources to a world that needs them.

This is the intention of the Re-Imagine Your Life Program.

I understand these issues and questions.  I grew up in a family that was, fortunately, not abusive. But many spiritually sensitive people find themselves in families who seemed to think there must be something wrong with a child who took things in so deeply, was so emotionally expressive, was so smart or so curious, or was interested in art and reading instead of football.

In my family I grew up feeling invisible.
I learned really well how to fit the mold and present myself in the expected way, but it never felt like me.  I had no way to know who I was, no one to mirror back to me what was wonderful about me.

A story from my life: Invisibility was a Theme in My Family
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We tend to go only as far as our ancestral life story will take us.
…and then if we are lucky and very strong, we go a few steps further.  But with expanded wisdom, new beliefs, and the strength, inspiration and deep inner healing that comes from being truly seen and heard, we can accomplish something virtually unlimited.

We all have limiting beliefs that imprison us, encage us. Each time you discover an experience that led to a belief that has limited you, you are removing a bar of the cage.

The wonderful value of EFT, and of all the energy psychology techniques, is that each of them is good at removing bars of the cage. Until soon, there is space for you to step out of the cage!

The wonderful value of discovering the Truth about you, is that when you look back over your life you can see evidence of it forever.  You have always been this good.

And there you are, reflected in your own Life Mirror:  an essential radiant sacred being-ness, visible to yourself, ready for presentation to the world in your own inimitable way.

Being spiritually sensitive is a gift.  The world needs what we have to offer!

The Re-Imagine Your Life Program can help you to offer what you specifically have to give.

What if, as children, we had had a wise advisor or fairy godmother or guardian angel or other loving  figure to be there for our child self for love, hugs,  advice, support, and as a truth teller?  We needed to know a deeper truth about ourselves.  If we had, it would have made all the difference.

“But,” you say, “I am so tired of going from counselor to coach to healer without results! My bookshelf and my computer and my head are already stuffed with spiritual self help, and I still have the same challenges!”

If you are sensitive, spiritually oriented, and you want to stop criticizing yourself and just be present to offer your gifts and feel the joy of that, then we are on the same page.  I want this program to be deeply useful for you!  I don’t want it to be just another self-help experience that a feels good in the moment but leaves no trace of itself in your life afterwards.

“And,” you add, “If I am already ‘on a spiritual path,’ why would I need a program like Re-Imagine Your Life?

Your life has not been easy, and you have shown that you are a survivor, even a thriver. You want to take your understanding of your life and why you are here to places that your current effort just can’t take you. You have had a lot of support along the way.  You have done a lot of your inner work yourself, against great odds.

Now is the time for a different kind of mentoring.

I lived in the Findhorn Foundation spiritual community in Scotland for seven years.

There was much that was powerfully transformative about that experience, but two things top the list for me:

One was immersing myself in a new way of thinking about my spirituality and what we as humans are here to do.

The other was the shared experience of embodying a vision with a close-knit group of people.  We didn’t always love or even like each other, but living into the answers to the deep questions we were asking together transformed us all profoundly.

Everything I have done since I lived at Findhorn has been held in the chalice of that experience.

The Re-Imagine Your Life program offers you these same benefits.

To manifest your own Spiritual Self Worth you need four powerful influences:

Self help techniques that get predictable, consistent results.

A spiritual perspective that offers an empowering, engaging, co-creative Presence in the world for your sensitivity to inhabit safely.

A plan to manifest your unique mission in the world in a way that is fun, engaging, joyful, creative and lucrative.

A community to rest in, be challenged by, and grow with.

The Re-Imagine Your Life program incorporates all four of these powerful influences, naturally, easily, compassionately, with joy and a good sense of humor!

To manifest your own Spiritual Self Worth you need Support:

Within the structure of the Re-Imagine Your Life program, you will find yourself living into a different level of awareness.

You can find a way to feel safe, joyful and successful AND add value in the world by doing what you love.

The support in Re-Imagine Your Life is designed and tailored to your specific story, and your specific needs.

The support is structured to hold you while you deepen into your own unique sense of your spiritual sovereignty and learn how to express it in your individual way.

Think about what you could be like now if you had grown up with this kind of wisdom and support.  It is still possible!

There is profound and practical help here for you to dissolve whatever is in the way of deeply feeling the blessing of your own spirituality, whatever that may be.

It doesn’t matter if you are a Christian, a Buddhist, a student of the Course in Miracles, a Mindfulness meditator, someone just curious about spirituality, or even an atheist.

I think all of us are reaching toward a powerful personal understanding of the central phrase of EFT: “I deeply and completely accept myself.”

The Re-Imagine Your Life program supports you wherever you are along the spiritual path, clearing the way for you to be more fully and deeply and easily and gracefully YOU.

This is six months of practical and heart-centered support to build your awareness of your own sacred sovereign self, change the story that you have been telling about yourself, and manifest who you are in the world.

*The OBJECTIVES of the Program:

1.    To develop a good familiarity with using meridian tapping techniques in spiritually creative ways, so that you can utilize these tools towards your own transformation, elegantly and masterfully, for yourself or as a practitioner working with family, friends, clients.

2.    To find a sense of home in yourself, to feel like you belong to and in yourself

3.    To be able to model this felt sense to others within work that you choose.

4.    To create an action plan to “put yourself out there” in your own unique way with confidence and anticipation

5.    To gain and deepen into a world view and creative methods of using energy meridian work that will help to awaken your spiritual sensitivity in a respectful, honoring, profoundly effective way.

*The STRUCTURE

An all-expenses-paid, two and a half day retreat at a spiritual community/retreat center/working ranch in the foothills of the Rocky Mountains in Colorado.  You are my guest.  All you pay is your travel costs.

Two group sessions by teleconference per month.  Each meeting will be 1.5-2 hours long.  Sessions will be recorded for you listen to again and keep forever to refer back to, or if you need to miss a class.

One or more small group meetings per month with your Presence and Purpose Tapping Support Group of 3-4 people

A minimum of one private session per month with me by telephone.  These sessions will also be recorded for you.

A written “Life Story” sent to me each month to celebrate your successes in honoring your emerging life.

A clever, easy to manage personal evaluation action plan so you can track your progress.

My response to you personally by email with comments and suggestions—and praise!

Access to your own members-only protected site for the downloadable session recordings, handouts and transcripts.

A members-only online group for discussion, sharing and support.

The gift of all of my books and ebooks.

*AS A PARTICIPANT in Re-Imagine Your Life:

You will feel immersed in the process of deepening into a sense of your own inner truth and happiness in a whole new way.

You will feel supported in following through with your new life story and making it happen.  The Re-Imagine Your Life Program is an opportunity to share a safe, deeply nourishing space to explore the nature of our sensitivity together.

Discover how to use your own inner guidance system.
Learn to answer your deepest questions in your own unique way….without having to read so many self-help books, or seek out yet more spiritual teachers, or get someone else to channel the answer for you from “spiritual entities.”

We will clear any trauma or beliefs that have been getting in the way. Using the wonderful tools of energy medicine, you will learn how to find your own path toward deeply and completely loving and accepting yourself—really, not just as an automatic phrase we say in EFT.

Now you can bloom from the center of the goodness that you already are, your birth-right.

Let’s re-shape ourselves at the deepest level of identity so that our true spiritual energy can flow free.

The kinds of results that I list below are really possible.  In my work over the years I have seen that the possibility for change is great.

With training in Re-Imagine Your Life you can:

Discover your own guidance system.
Everywhere you see people making offers to channel the answers to your life questions for you.   Re-Imagine Your Life is based on the understanding that you have immediate access to your own finely-tuned guidance system. You will learn how to read the messages.

Find your own voice and the ability to use it on your own behalf. You have been speaking unconsciously from the authoritative voices  of your childhood.  From the inexperience of childhood, or from fear, you thought were right. Re-Imagine Your Life guides you to express yourself from your own deep heart.

Stand up for yourself.  This program helps you to develop the power and presence of your sacred self so you can show up every day with more confidence and clarity.

Free your spirit.  As a sensitive person trying to live in an insensitive world, you have been very protective of yourself, and rightly so.  The Re-Imagine Your Life Program will show you where in your life you have been caging your spirit, held too tightly in a cage of limiting beliefs, pain and behaviors, and give you the tools to open the cage.

Heal your body. Most chronic illness was created by a lifetime of swallowed anger and fear.  You will learn how to take charge of your own healing, and build an identity on your own inner truth.  You will learn to trade an addiction to healing for true inner wholeness.

Be willing to be here with less pain and a lot more joy. In this program you will discover a way of being in the world where you can literally be in your own skin and enjoy it.

Discover a feeling of true purpose — free yourself from the need to live someone else’s story and begin to live the story that you choose, the story that feels right for you.

Disconnect from toxic people whose approval you have been trying to win, and reconnect with yourself.  Learn how to find your own authentic NO, instead of depending on illness or perceived weakness.

Move from feeling invisible to seeing yourself. I found that feeling invisible stemmed from never having been able to truly see my self.  The Re-Imagine Your Life Program will hold up a mirror to you until you see the beauty of your truth.

Find work that is an expression of your truth.  Instead of feeling trapped in a traditional job and a slave to your perfectionistic tendencies, you want work that nourishes and enlivens you.  The Re-Imagine Your Life Program will put you on track to live your mission in the world.

Free your spiritual sensitivity.  Instead of trying to eliminate it or defending your self from the world, you will learn to feel comfortable with your sensitivity, value it as a gift, and use its strength to make a path through, around, over and under your obstacles with love and creativity.

Feel like you belong.  Belong to yourself.

You are ready to replace an identity of “seeking healing” with answering the question: “Who would I be without this problem which has become an identity for me?”

You want to make a difference in the world and you are willing to begin with your own self-transformation.

You want to learn to utilize your spirituality for blessing your self and the world.

You are ready to tell your wealth-being story.

I invite you to take this heartful path. I will do my best to be a useful partner in your return to it.

You must have the will and the willingness to hold your own course.

The Re-Imagine Your Life Program is NOT for people who are addicted to self-help programs.

This kind of person means well, but they usually can’t manage to do the work involved when it means changing their identity, and so nothing changes in their lives.  This program is not for people who want to “sit in the back of the room” and observe without participating. However, at the same time, I don’t ever want you to feel called out or pressured beyond what you are willing to expose yourself to.

This is an invitation, not a demand!

If you are willing to engage with this work, your life will transform forever.  YOU are in charge of how much it transforms.

In this program we are creating a safe healing circle that asks for a big commitment. I know this kind of visibility may sound scary to many sensitive people.  Since I understand that, I do my best to create an environment that is nurturing and supportive.

Still, I want participants who are willing to put their attention on what they want even if they are uncertain, nervous or unconfident.  If you have the willingness, we will find the way through for you.

Please read a lovely letter that a participant sent to me after we worked together in a Re-Imagine Your Life class:

Kind testimonial from Marian “I Reconnected with my Spiritual Self”
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Intuitive Mentoring for Spiritual Self Worth
Six months of spiritual, heart-centered, life path coaching
for spiritually sensitive people
Using EFT and other meridian tapping techniques,
Guaranteed to bring you home to yourself.

* The Program begins on March 15, applications are now closed

If you think this program may be for you, here’s what to do: Fill out the application below completely so I know about your situation in some depth. Then I’ll get back to you and, if appropriate, offer you a complimentary one-hour personal consultation so that we both can determine if this is the right program for you.

I want this program to fill with the 15-20 people who seem most right for it, and who really want to change their lives and live their true purpose. You will be among a very special, cutting-edge group of human beings who are committed to looking for the next level of personal and sacred human awareness, spiritual tools, meridian tapping techniques, hands-on coaching, and the support of a community.

You don’t have to meet some standard to get in. This isn’t an audition! This is a co-creative act of contemplation between the two of us.

If I don’t think you’re a good candidate for the program, you’ll receive a personal email with my reasons and suggestions for next steps for you.

There is no financial or personal obligation connected to applying.

* COST

Re-Imagine Your Life will cost money, and it will not be cheap, and I really want to invite you to apply for the program.

But I don’t just want your money. Here is what I want:

I want you to know as much as you can about what you will be getting for your money.

I want you to know as much as you can about who you are, and what is possible for you.

I want you to have learned about this program so that you can truly make an “educated decision” about its value for you.

If I just posted the program and its cost, a lot of unconscious programming could jump into action and make your decision for you.

Why don’t I share the fee with you before you apply?  Some people feel this is manipulative, to trick you into applying.

No, the reason is that the answer to the question, “Do I want to do it?” is a completely different question than, “Can I afford it?” If you really want to do it, you’ll find a way to afford it. But if you think you can’t afford it first, you may give up on your interest in doing it.

I will tell you my personal story about finding a way to afford a training, when my husband and I were bankrupt and unemployed, on the confirmation page that you will be sent to after you apply.

So the question is “Do you want to do it?” If so, please apply. Then you’ll receive the price and you can determine if you can fit it into your budget or not. I break the fee down into affordable monthly payments.

If you find yourself interested in Re-Imagining Your Life, I want you to have the opportunity to talk with me personally and ask questions, even pointed ones, and I want to talk with you too, to find out if you would be a good match for the program.

This isn’t just me selling you something, this is you and me together making an honest commitment to each other. That is a powerful act, and I want it to mean something to both of us.

A written description of the program can’t really give you a feel for what it will be like to participate in it. I hope that you will apply so that you have the opportunity to ask the questions you have, and to hear how I answer them.

Do you still need to know more about how I work before you decide to apply?
Read some stories about my work here:

You Are “Good as Gold” Already

Healing the “Were-ies” of the Past

Change – One tap at a Time

Applications for this program are now closed, but may re-open when a future program is scheduled.