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Archive for May, 2007

What Did You Want to Say that You Couldn’t Say?

Recently I have found myself in EFT sessions asking people the question, "What did you want to say that you couldn’t?"  Here are five examples of tapping sessions that dealt with this question.

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I was listening as someone was telling me how much better she was doing since our last session.  The pain and cramping that had made her hands "stuck closed" had loosened up now.  But then she began to describe how the pain seemed to be "moving up my arms into my neck, where it used to be, a sharp, burning pain."  (I always ask, "Pain like what?")

I asked her when she first started noticing pain like this, and she began talking about thirty years earlier when she had such terrible tension in her jaw.

I imagined her jaw clenched closed… and the question popped out.  "What did you want to say back then, or even earlier in your childhood, but couldn’t?"

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